Proud Mama

From mother’s day to graduation day, could there possibly have been a better seven-day stretch to follow our Florida vacation?

Celebrating Erica, along with her mother, sister-in-law and the newest mother in the family, our niece Tory, was a beautiful reminder of the generational blessings and close family that surrounds us. We say Yay to these mothers and those that were not with us, thanking God for all they have done, are doing and will do to create a family and memories that will go far beyond our time.

From celebrating mom to celebrating our son, we could not be more proud as we watched our youngest receive his bachelor of science degrees in economics and finance with high honors. It may have been delirium from three hours of 90 degree direct sun, but for a brief moment parenthood felt perfect. The toddler tantrums, adolescent anger, tears over failed friendships and relationships all disappeared. We actually did everything right. Both of our boys, Bram and Christian, have made it to adulthood and proved to be capable of surviving, even thriving, on their own.

But momma bear does not have to mourn the empty den just yet. Bram will be returning home for the summer, looking to start his career. Erica says, Yay! (But if anyone has contacts in investment banking, please let us know).

Erica is enjoying a bit of health improvement during all of this excitement—although this comes with a higher level of faith. Prior to our trip to Florida, Erica’s oncologist offered that she skip a treatment cycle. Considering that Erica lost all appetite for solid food, continued to weight loss and was living with chronic fatigue, this juxtaposed by recent clean and stable scans, he felt that some reprieve from the chemo side effects and incessant hospital appointments would be refreshing. We agreed. Returning from our trip, Erica had a follow up appointment where the doctor saw her improved energy, weight was stable and we reported that she was now eating consistent small meals. He proposed an extension to remain off of all treatment until her next scan. A full 3 months without treatment. No medical control of the cancer. Erica has decided to take this option. Her energy is rapidly increasing and she is enjoying regular meals again. With this new-found energy and practice navigating her electric wheelchair, the only thing holding her back is the Pittsburgh weather. I can tell that she is feeling better because of her constant complaining of boredom—like the kids from Cat in the Hat waiting for the rain to end. We thank God for this joyful time, trusting miracles over medicine.